Simone Biles triumphant return to the Olympic podium in Paris, after withdrawing from several events in Tokyo due to mental health struggles, is nothing short of inspiring. Her courage to prioritize her well-being over societal expectations is a beacon of hope, especially in a world that often demands athletes sacrifice everything for the sake of victory.

It highlights the stark contrast in how America and New Zealand treat “fallen stars.” While Americans rally around those facing adversity, Kiwis often tear down their “tall poppies.” This cultural phenomenon, deeply rooted in New Zealand’s egalitarian values, can have devastating consequences. Research shows that 91% of Kiwi entrepreneurs have experienced Tall Poppy Syndrome, and it even contributed to a tragic suicide in 2021.

Wellington has been resistant to this phenomenon. Sir Peter Jackson, the acclaimed director of the Lord of the Rings trilogy, faced criticism and resentment from some quarters for his immense success and wealth. Despite bringing international recognition and economic benefits to New Zealand, some accused him of being out of touch with ordinary Kiwis and of exploiting the country’s resources for personal gain.

Another Wellingtonian who has experienced the sting of Tall Poppy Syndrome is Taika Waititi, the Oscar-winning filmmaker. While celebrated for his unique style and humor, Waititi has also faced backlash for his perceived arrogance and outspokenness. Some critics have accused him of being too “Hollywood” and of forgetting his Kiwi roots.

The case of these Wellington stars, like Simone Biles, reminds us that even the most successful individuals are human and deserve compassion. Instead of criticizing, we should celebrate achievements while offering support during challenges. This not only fosters a healthier environment for individuals but also sets a positive example for future generations. 

It’s time for New Zealand to re-evaluate its relationship with success, embracing a culture that values both accomplishments and vulnerability.